huge hands like this or john stocil-like pawns. when you have to go through that kind of training so you think someone is not going to kill you, the russians even, the dumb russians were smart enough to get the message after 10 years. it is not working out for you. the best way to protect yourself is not to learn some kind of vodoo customs or what you would imagine the customs would be. it is to get yourself out of the situation where somebody is in uniform. >> it is like an abusive relationship. i keep trying and they still hurt me. i think it is just time i get out. no matter what i do i can't make them happy. how do you deal with super sensitive people? do you kill them? >> i just keep walking on egg shells and trying harder. there is nothing these soldiers can do right. you can be offensive if you ask to see a photo of somebody's family. the circles i run in, if you don't say, oh, a baby, can i see a photo? beautiful. can i see more photoses? then they kill you. >> if you don't casually mention to dana perino, i hear you have a